In News of the Last 48 Hours of Paradox's Life, I had a bit of romantic catastrophe that's left me reeling and rethinking many, many things. A lot of which I want to write about.
I've got some kind of gigantic post or series of posts coming about gossip and abuse and responses to abuse and public domain information and personal responsibility for the safety of others and how all of the above relates to the BDSM/poly/sex positive/whatever community. Which is going to take me a couple of days to sort out.
I just wanted to write something down here to be like, whoa, some SHIT has been going down and I have THINGS TO SAY. That is all. More to come.
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1 comments:
If the wishes of one anonymous lurker mean anything to you, I wish you the best of luck in reintegrating the bits and pieces of your world. In my experiences, what you're describing can be a source of growth and intellectual-emotional development... in retrospect. At the time, however, the reconstruction process can be tiring, painful, and a little frightening. You have my sympathies.
Having only recently delved into the poly lifestyle myself, and finding much on your blog that I agree with, I find myself eager to hear about your discoveries, in the hope that they may facilitate my own development as a human being. Translation: things may suck for you right now, but in between sympathizing and offering my advice, I will be assimilating as much knowledge as I can from your predicament. :P
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