I am a hugely orally fixated person. I love oral sex, giving blow jobs and going down on women. Sometimes when I masturbate, I put my fingers or a dildo in my mouth because it feels really good to me to have something there. These things are great and I wouldn't want to do without them, but my favorite thing to do with my mouth and my time is kiss.
Kissing turns me on more than any other sexy activity. I cannot have sex without kissing; I won't be into it and I'll get frustrated and annoyed. Kissing is what makes me wet, and I could do it for hours before getting to anything else.
More importantly, it's what really makes me feel close to whoever I'm with. A kiss causes an instant release of happy bonding chemicals in my brain. It's like insta-bond. Even just a quick peck from a partner as we go about our day keeps me happy and prompts small swooning. I really just like the feeling of someone else's lips on my own.
I haven't had lots of good kissing in almost two weeks. (I know, I have a low tolerance for abstinence from anything.) I want some.
Kisses in bed, anyone?
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I know what you mean about kissing. I once sat in a car, second date with my sweety, and we kissed for nearly three hours. I spent the next three weeks in and out of the chiropractor's office... but it was worth every bit of it. That was my first really GREAT kiss.
Oh and I nearly forgot... Nice HNT.
I couldn't agree more. Nothing turns me off faster than a lousy kisser, and nothing turns me on more quickly than a good one.
I'm also a big fan of the affectionate casual touch. For a lover to just pause and run a hand across my shoulder or arm as she walks past makes me feel aroused, safe and comfy, and loved.
---Myca
PS. Also: HNT?
Big Geek: Sounds like a lovely three hours. And thank you!
Myca: I like that, too. I don't necessarily like being fully entwined with someone in public (I hate walking with an arm over my shoulder; feels restrictive) but I like little affectionate touches a lot. Makes me feel like the person's acknowledging our relationship and honoring it, which is so nice. HNT is Half Nekkid Thursday, a blog (mostly sex blog) phenomenon. I'm surprised you've not heard of it!
You're doing HNT? Oh thank you thank you thank you!
Ahh, in that case, quite lovely!
---Myca
Haha, anon, I'm not sure I'll be doing it every week, but the outpouring of gratitude may flatter me into it. Thanks!
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